Don’t Call Me if all you want to do is have a pity party!
I know! It sounds really harsh!
After all, isn’t that what being a friend does? Isn’t that what we do for each other? Listen when the other is down!
This conversation is about your power! Acknowledging your feelings surrounding the situation. What you can do, what you can do differently. What you can choose differently! New thoughts, new energy and new situations. This conversation is about taking responsibility for yourself, your emotions, your energy, your situation, and moving yourself on.
- So what are you going to choose to do? What is the choice here?
- Where is it that you want to go?
- How can you get yourself unstuck?
- What is the first thing that you have to do?
If that is not what you want to hear, don’t ring me. I am not being a good friend by allowing you to have a pity party with me. It gives you an audience to be stuck with. It gives you someone who is not invested in your power. It feeds your feelings of dis-empowerment and lack of choice. It allows you the space to chew over past hurts, current shittiness and allows you to never face up to the fact that you create or add to your situation, and your choices create your path, and your path determines your future. I will not be that friend who says it is okay for you to stay there in misery.